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herefortheace:

How I got involved in “the discourse”:

Someone: “aces+aros aren’t inherently LGBT+”

Me: reads some of the discussions, goes back to other things

Someone: “aces are so shitty and embarassing”

Me: ???

Someone: “aces r terrible, ace tumblr™ is the worst”

Me: ??? (tries to move on)

Someone, much later: “aro men attracted to women r misogynic and treat women badly”

Me: gets highly highly uncomfortable, thinks about saying something, finally moves on and just unfollows bc too freaked out

Someone: “aces+aros aren’t inherently LGBT+”

Me: still not involved in ‘discourse’

Someone: “demisexuality does not exist it’s a shitty label ppl need to not use it” (wrong definition of demisexuality gets used throughout entire post, it has a good deal of notes)

Me: “um I think that’s not good to say please don’t, it’s also not the actual definition?” (gets blocked, moves on)

A lot of people: “aros r misogynic”

A lot of people, many of them white: “aces+aros are all so white and racist”

Me: “heyy stop maybe, a lot of this stuff harms aces and aros of color and I’m VERY uncomfortable here, stop stop?”

Some ppl: immediately assume I’m white

A ton of other “exclusionists”: don’t take note at all, keep shitting on aces and aros including those belonging to additional marginalized group, I see worse and worse, anons come to me telling me most aces+aros are “cis, het and white”. Ace+aro PoC upset about all this outright get called ‘tokens’

Me: … … okay u know what I’m DONE

(Of course, the worst was yet to come)

Anonymous

Anonymous asked:

I think you should just block that discourse blog, you're obviously not going to agree and they don't seem like they're going to stop.

They’re literally a minor and they’re really acting like it. I’m going to assume they’re six.

virizioncourse:

that-spaz-chick:

virizioncourse:

that-spaz-chick:

I love how when you tell someone not to interact with you they reply one more time so they can get the last word in. And by love I mean hate.

Whaddup my name is Jared I’m 19 and I never learned how to read

Literally how many times do I have to tell you not to interact with me.

Hi

One of your little friends came into my ask yesterday telling me to leave you alone. You can’t tell me to leave you alone if you’re gonna keep harassing me. Don’t interact with me.

Anonymous

Anonymous asked:

the thing is uh... cishet ace-spectrums are... cishet

goblincourse:

carothepandragon:

carothepandragon:

that-spaz-chick:

carothepandragon:

that-spaz-chick:

carothepandragon:

that-spaz-chick:

carothepandragon:

that-spaz-chick:

carothepandragon:

that-spaz-chick:

carothepandragon:

that-spaz-chick:

No, they’re cisace or cisaro. Heterosexual is just one part of the orientation. Also, stop being a coward and come off anon or don’t message me at all.

So does that mean there aren’t cis gay asexuals??? You literally have no logic here

I’m specifically talking about cisaro heterosexuals and cisace heteroromantics. There are aspec people of all orientations.

Yeah they’re called straight people

No, they’re called aspec. That’s literally why we have a word for it.

So my guy friend who doesn’t want a relationship and just wants to fuck a bunch of women is now gay huh

I literally just said he’s aspec. If you don’t know what aspec means don’t discourse.

And you think aspec means lgbt. So yeah you think chad here is gay

So you’re a transphobe and an aphobe. Good to know.

Nice reach in what way is that transphobic in the slightest lmao

You implied the only way to be queer is to be gay, erasing straight trans people from the queer community. So yeah you’re a transphobe.

Wow, that really is a long reach. I’m pan, I’m lgbt. Chad here who only fucks women and doesn’t like relationships is not lgbt. He is straight. Maybe pull that stick out of your ass while you’re here tho.

@goblincourse @virizioncourse
idk I feel like you guys would enjoy this person’s dumbassery

What’s the point? OP has made up their mind using no critical thinking skills and no regard for other human beings. They’re going to defend themselves to the last breath because their ideas are the only things they have left in this shitty, shitty world. Admitting they’re wrong would be too painful so they’re just gonna keep on fighting.

You know I can see your post right? It’s amazing how hard you’re projecting. I can’t believe your life is so consumed by hate you spent your time advocating bigotry on the Internet. Just admit you hate yourself and get the therapy you need. @autistictaramaclay @justaphobethings check this out I can’t believe what I’m seeing.

mermaidnympho:

Tbh there is this huge elephant in the room that rarely gets talked about. Like men are not sexual objects and just because I, a woman, is horny does not mean my husband HAS to sexually satisfy me and begging and pleading unless in the realm of play is not okay like getting them to say yes by guilt isn’t consent
And male consent is so important and I feel like it doesn’t get spoken about as much because of the whole “males are always horny” false ideology and I wish we cut down creepy girls the same way we cut down creepy guys

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